“I cheated my hubby until the he agreed to be swinger – now our kids are happier.”

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The cheating wife claimed that she kept doing the dirty for her husband until he accepted to be a swinger.

Krystina Bolin, mother-of-two, has been married for 16 years to Mark. However she could not stop playing.

She is now a champion for swingers and has more that a quarter of one million followers on TikTok.

After the couple increased their sex life, the 38-year old says that their relationship is stronger than ever.

Despite their positives, they lost friends and family members attempted to intervene.

Speaking exclusively with the Silver Screen Beat, Krystina said: “I wasn’t worried about becoming a swinger because I had cheated on my husband and I knew I could have that sexual desire for another man but not want to be with him romantically.



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Krystina, a bisexual, enjoyed threesomes together with her husband and other ladies but it wasn’t enough

“My husband was worried at the start but then he was like ‘oh my god this is crazy’ and it was nothing like he thought.

“We are now happier than ever and are more attracted to each other. We are no longer holding things in and if I want something in another man I don’t have to hold it in and feel guilty.

“It has taken the weight of the world off our shoulders.”

The pair, who are from Michigan, US, grew up in the same small town together but didn’t start dating until their early 20s.

At the time Krystina was a mum and she cheated on her daughter’s father to land her future husband.



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Krystina shares her journey on TikTok tiktokgirl_krystina5.0

They have been married for 17 years, and they have a 15 year-old daughter.

Krystina has always been bisexual. She had her first sexual encounter with her husband in a three-way.

She said: “I am very open about having a problem with monogamy and being with just one person and that’s how our relationship started.

“The first night we slept together we invited my best friend. We have been having threesomes with women our whole relationship.

“But I had a problem with having affairs because I would want other men too.”



Krystina Bolin
Krystina has been married to Mark for 16 year and have a daughter.

Three years ago, she spoke up to her husband. She said that even though she desired to marry, she still wanted other men.

They did extensive research about swinging, including listening to podcasts and reading books. Finally, they created an online profile.

The couple, who own a real estate business together, has been couple swapping for the past two-and-a-half years. They say that their lives are now transformed.

Krystina said, “Our life is so much more successful including our health and business and even our children are happier.

“It’s crazy how much our lives have changed for the good.”

But becoming swingers hasn’t been without its challenges with some friends and family not approving.

After 25 years of being friends, one couple disowned their family.



Krystina Bolin
The couple opened up about their lives and have now 239,000 followers on TikTok

Krstina also added: “I told my mum first that I was going to go on TikTok as a swinger and she already knew we were having threesomes and she was totally OK with it.

“But everyone minus her and my brother treated us differently.

“People don’t understand that we are exactly the same people as before. People just don’t understand how we can share the one person we love more than anything in this world minus our children.

“But it’s because we love them so much that we want to share them with people. People judge what they can’t understand.”

Despite the criticism from others, Krysinta’s daughters, 17 and 15, have been accepting.



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Krystina & Mark now ask others to stop judging their actions

After her mother gave swinging advice via TikTok, the oldest daughter discovered it by accident.

Krystina remembered: “She was like ‘now I know why we have all this pineapple stuff’It’s possible!

“I told her I was sorry for not telling her but she said she had never seen us so happy and that we never argue any more.

“She also said now she knows what we’re up to when we’re gone overnight on the weekends.”

The swinging mum said she now gets a lot of hate on social media but believes it is worth it because she is finally free to be herself.

However she did ask trolls to be more considerate.

She said: “People look at us like we are these abnormal sex freaks but we should be accepted.

“Stop discriminating against swingers just for speaking out about our lives and trying to educate people.”

And Krystina offered the following advice to couples in the UK looking to get into swinging.

She said: “My number one piece of advice is to keep having honest conversations with your spouse.

“Don’t be afraid to tell them anything because that’s the number one step. If you can’t tell them openly about your desires for another person then you’re not going to be able to be successful in the lifestyle.

“Tell them your feelings in a genuine way in a non hurtful way and then the next step is to get educated rather than diving right in.”